Tuesday, September 8, 2015

New Encounters

Looks like a dinosaur!
This past week or so has been full of new adventures some of which have certainly shown us a new view of Korean culture.  If you ever want to know more about a culture, eat with a native and go to the funeral of a native.  That's what we did, at least.
Whale bones!

At work, Trevor is supposed to teach an English conversation class to any interested teachers at the school.  There is only one teacher who actually attends the class.  He is a math teacher who goes by Mr. Lee (so foreigner's like me can pronounce his name correctly ;) ).  Mr. Lee was kind enough to show us around Ulsan and take us out to dinner.  We started the day off going to the town hall to see if we could sign up for some free Korean classes.  Afterwards, Mr. Lee took us to a whale museum where they have facts and artifacts of the whaling industry that was very popular in Korea.  It was cool to see some of the whale bones and get an idea of just how big they are.

Next up was dinner.  Mr. Lee treated us nicely by taking us to shabu shabu (read about it in my early post about food if you can't remember) which is probably one of the longest running meals I've ever had.  It basically has 3 courses which are all boiled individually by the ones eating.  Basically it takes the chef out of the equation and only requires food prep staff ;).  After dinner, in order to digest our large meal, Mr. Lee showed us a path along the main river in Ulsan which lead up to a traditional Korean building which was cool to see especially when it was lit up as the sun was setting.

empty bowl of patbingsu
Since I had never tried it before, Mr. Lee then insisted that we go get some patbingsu which is best described as shaved ice.  Traditional patbingsu has red bean paste and rice which is supposed to taste sweet according to Koreans which is not particularly how I would describe it.  Our patbingsu had oreo cookie crumbles and mango slices with two small scoops of ice cream on top.  I know most of you think that snow cones need syrup for flavoring but Koreans are perfectly content with just the basics.  I think maybe I just prefer creamy to watery ;).  Mr. Lee was so nice to take us around and pay for us to have a fun night!

butterfly the size of my hand so pretty!
Another adventure we had this week was quite an unfortunate one.  A member in our branch sadly passed away so we attended part of a Korean funeral.  To spare any disrespect that might go toward the family of the deceased, I won't go into too much detail because I'm sure that an affair like this does not need to be shared with the general public.  Usually, Korean funerals last 3 days with various ceremonies and paying respect for the dead.  We only went to the last day of this funeral and it was a different experience and the whole time I dreaded doing anything that would be disrespectful.  If you want a more detailed description of went on that day, you can ask me personally.
It ate a piece of our map! Meanie!

To lighten up the mood, I'll transition to something more joyful. This weekend, Trevor and went to a botanical garden here in Ulsan.  It was very pretty and I guess either it's not a popular sight-see or we just happened to go when nobody else was there.  We had to whole park to ourselves!  There were a lot of beautiful flowers and greenery that was a perfect way to just relax with my love! <3 <3 <3

In the gardens there was a building that had a small aviary as well as some reptiles and a few mammals.  Although the rest of the park had been very pleasant, being reptile advocates (especially Trevor), we were somewhat disappointed in the enclosures they had for the reptiles.  Most of them were just glass tanks with the animal and maybe a little food dish.  We had heard that you could hold some of the animals there, but there wasn't a worker there to let us hold them so we had to walk away with sullen heads.  It was easy to regain our happiness though because there was still much beauty to behold.

We came to one place that was a big open grassy field with a few small trees that looked like the beginning of an orchard.  At the top of the hill there were some sleds which I usually associated with snow but there were also a few sleds at the bottom of the hill.  Trevor and I naturally assumed that everyone has a blast racing down the grassy slope on these little sled.  We decided to give it a go.  Luckily I decided to video the ride down.  I think you'll love it!

View from top of the hill
After going through all of the gardens, we decided to walk all the way down to a bus stop instead of taking a taxi which is how we got up there in the first place.  I was glad we did because the way down was just about a scenic as walking through the gardens.  It was such a pretty walk!  We ended up at a place a few bus stops from our apartment and ended the day with some pizza.  It's simple adventures like these where I just get to enjoy nature and Trevor's company that I love the most!

Ok, I know that this is a long post but I will end with one more story.  Another teacher at Trevor's school also wanted to have dinner with us so we decided to have dinner at our house and I would make something American for our new friend.  I decided to make potato soup (with American bacon, of course) along with some broccoli and toast.  I think he liked it because at first he had kind of a small bowl just in case he didn't care for it but it disappeared quickly and he asked if he could go get more.  His second bowl was near to overflowing and it didn't last long either.  I was glad to see that some good old American cookin' could satisfy a Korean around our same age.  After dinner we talked for a while and enjoyed some cream puffs that our guest had brought with him.  I have to have people over for dinner more often!

Readers beware! My next post will most likely be about bugs!

















Monday, August 31, 2015

I'm Back!

Whether in the States or here in Korea, I make sure to have fun wherever I am!  There has been a noticeable change to Ulsan while I was away.  It took about 10 minutes after getting off the airplane in Seoul to feel the difference. It was especially noticeable while in line waiting to get through customs.  It was so hot and humid it made waiting tick by even slower than usual!  When I left, it was summer, and it had been getting hot, but within the month I was gone there was quite a dramatic change.  It reminds me of the frog in a boiling pot of water concept.  If I would have been there all of August I might not have noticed so much of a change.

Trevor and I don't let the heat get us down, though.  We spent a lovely evening having a picnic at the beach.  We had a basket and pb&j's and found starfish and looked at seashells and skipped rocks in the water.  It had been sunny and hot and humid all day so I had planned this surprise for when Trevor came home from work.  By the time 4:00 had rolled around, in came the clouds, trying to ruin our fun again!  It wasn't quite warm enough to enjoy a swim in the ocean but the sun peeped back out and made for a lovely evening!

애슐리 is "Ashley" in Korean characters
This weekend, Trevor and I went to the downtown area to go to a flea market we had seen advertised.  We weren't sure what time it started so we went around 10:00 assuming such and event would be kind of an all day thing.  It wasn't.  It started at 1:00.  Luckily, downtown has so many things to do and see so we went exploring for a while.  We happened upon this "American" buffet/salad bar called Ashley Grill and Salad (shout out to lil' sis' Ashley :D).  I think that some of their chefs need to go to America because some of their dishes weren't very close to American cuisine.  Their select few desserts were my favorite part (of course) and I was more than happy to go back for seconds (or thirds) of some of the desserts.

After lunch, we finally got to the flea market where there was a line of people and a spinning wheel and magnetic darts.  Each person got the chance to hit a dart on the spinning wheel and win a prize.  It was so exciting!  Trevor got a coupon for $1 off a drink at a nearby cafe and I got something that Trevor translated as a "rocket box".  We had to go to the information desk at the flea market to find out what my prize was.  The lady at the spinning wheel seemed quite excited for me when I landed on "rocket box" so I was even more excited!  What "rocket box" meant was there was a box of a bunch of papers that would indicate what prize you would get at the information desk.  I got a bar of soap.  YAYyyyyyyy....... My bar of soap for a prize was just about as exciting as the flea market in it's entirety.  There were 10-15 booths set up all together and there wasn't anything that caught either of our attention.  We ended our trip getting $1 off of a milkshake and headed home.

I am so glad to be back with Trevor and I have high spirits for the rest of our time here in Korea.  We wish all our friends and family the best and hope to keep in touch.  I wouldn't mind a pen pal or two ;) If you would like our address, just message Trevor or I and we will be more than happy to provide it :D

p.s. my next post will probably be about bugs so keep an eye out!!!
 This special video gem is of this little "ride" in a basement arcade room downtown.  It spins around and bounces the people around like popcorn.  I didn't even video the most exciting part.  A couple of girls there decided it was amusing to be in the foreigner's video.

Monday, August 10, 2015

Expat on Vaca

Even though I'm not in a strange country, I can still have adventures, right?  Well I have, so there!  Believe me when I tell you I've made that plane ticket as worth the money as possible!  And boy, it's been so nice to be around some of my friends and family. Here is a brief synopsis of some adventures I've had while in the states.

1.  My dad and I traveled to the fabulous land of Paradox to spend some time with Grandma and Grandpa Hayes.  They didn't know I was coming so my dad went inside and said he brought something for them but it was too heavy for him to carry himself (is that a fat joke, dad?? ;) ) and that they had to come help him bring it in.  What a surprise!!! I was so happy to see them!  My grandma squealed with joy and if I'm not mistaken (don't tell him I told you) I think my grandpa might have been experiencing some sort of allergies in his eyes ;).  While there, we re-caulked some windows, re-did some stairs on the porch, sprayed noxious weeds, and of course, rode 4-wheelers and had an overall grand time! Just take a look at the view of Paradox valley.

Look great after a long day
and hours of dancing! ;)
2.  From Colorado, I traveled back through Utah and then up to Boise, ID for the wedding of one of my very dear friends Emily.  With the help of Emily's cousins, I was able to make it in time for the bachelorette party which was a blast!  It was so nice to be able to see my 3 best friends from high school Kaitlyn, Jessie, and Emily.  This was the first time we had all been together again since high school so it was a very special occasion.  Other festivities included decorating, the rehearsal dinner, the wedding ceremony and reception (of course), and lots and lots of pictures, sweet words, and tears.  It was a beautiful ceremony full of sincerity, love, and joy.  Congratulations again to Emily and Joe!

3.  After the wedding it was time to head to Montana to be with my family (thanks Kaitlyn's family for helping to get me part way there).  Although we have fun every day here, I'll just share a few highlights. My mom, dad, mom's boss, and I went on a hike at Crystal Lake to see some ice caves.  The hike was 11 miles all together and even though Trevor and I walk everywhere in Korea, I was completely exhausted and even sore the next day.  The ice caves were pretty cool (in more than one way ;) ) and it was a pretty hike the whole way around.

4.  Sydney and her fiance Jensen came from Rexburg and we had a bridal shower in Lewistown that evening and then headed to Billings the next day for Sydney to be able to go through the temple for the first time.  It was a pretty neat experience as this was the first time I was able to go through the temple with a loved one who was going for their first time ever.  I really wish my sweet husband could have been there because every time I'm in the temple I think of our wedding more than a year ago.  After attending the temple, we went to lunch at Red Robin (YUMMM!) which has been a favorite of Trevor's and mine.  Once again, I wished my husband was here because he is one person who appreciates Red Robin maybe even more than I do.  Sorry babe you couldn't come!

5.  As per usual, I had to cause mischief with my "twin" Ashley.  And to prove how much people think we look alike, let me tell you a story.  I was at church one Sunday with my parents (Ashley wasn't able to attend because of work constraints) and I was sitting next to my mom during one of the lessons.  At the beginning of the meeting, the teenagers join the adults for some announcements. During the announcements, a lady who knows my mom and sisters fairly well came and sat next to me.  Shortly after, they dismissed the teenagers to go to their separate class and when I didn't leave, the lady next to me asked me surprisingly if I had graduated.  I laughed, understanding the mistake she had made and explained that I was Ashley's older sister.  We both laughed and so did my family when I told them what happened.  Anyways, it's been fun to spend some time with Ashley while I've been here :D.

To come we still have Sydney and Jensen's wedding, more shenanigans with sista shrub Lindsay, and a dreaded flight back to Korea (not dreaded because I have to be back in Korea but because it is soooooooooo looooooooooonnngggg!!!)  I really really really can't wait to see Trevor again.  I have missed him so much!

On a side note, with all the wedding this that and the other I've been involved in, I was reminded of my wedding last year.  I want to thank again everyone who was so helpful with my wedding.  I know it took a lot of work and sometimes I can be pretty passive so a lot of you made decisions for me (sorry!).  Thanks Kelsey and Kylie for working so hard on the decorations I was absolutely floored to see the reception space and how amazing it looked.  Thanks Kelley for helping out so much with the planning and providing so many resources and making endless trips and doing favors so we didn't have to break the bank!  Thanks to my mom Terri for making batches and batches of goodies and bringing them all the way to St. George with you and for handling most of the rsvp details.  Thanks Mimi for the beautiful backyard and Julie for the fabulous cake.  I'm grateful to Emily for making a long trip just to see me, it was the least I could do to return the favor for your wedding :). I know many more people helped especially everyone in our immediate family and I don't mean to exclude anyone but I really really appreciate everything everyone did to make for a stress free wedding day.  I know sometimes I'm not good at thank-you's just because of my shy nature but I really am grateful for all of my family members both the ones I've had since birth and the ones I've gained since.







Tuesday, July 21, 2015

Missed Miscellaneous

As some of you might know, I'm currently in the grand U.S. of A to visit family and attend two fabulous weddings.  I got all caught up on packing and preparing for my trip, I forgot to update our blog on our latest Korean adventures.  Even though I'm having way too much fun with my family, I decided to do this post before it was too late especially since it includes one of Trevor's favorite things: soccer!

Trevor works for a school funded by Hyundai which sometimes comes with random hidden perks.  One such perk included free tickets to a soccer game featuring Ulsan's Hyundai team and some other team I can't remember (that's what the hubby's for but we are half a world apart right now).  The night was full of fog and rain but despite the gloom, I could hear from quite a distance a grand noise coming from the stadium.  There weren't a whole lot of people there but there were die-hard fans supporting their team.  There was even a guy on a platform leading the fan section in various chants and songs throughout the WHOLE GAME!  You'd think it would be just annoying but it was kind of fun even though I couldn't understand what they were saying.
Leading the crowd in chants

Sadly, I'm still not sure if our team won or not.  The other team had scored a goal during the first 15 minutes of the game and the score remained throughout the rest of the game.  Not wanting to be caught in the after game rush, Trevor and I decided to leave when there was a minute or two left on the clock.  Bad mistake!  As we were leaving the stadium we heard a bunch of cheering loud enough to indicate a goal had been made.  I wasn't sure if this was the case or if the game had simply ended and the fans were just giving supporting cheers to their team even though they lost.  Either way, I can't say for sure the exact outcome of the game.  I'm sure Trevor was more devastated than I was that we didn't see the cause of the commotion right after we left but I will say it was his idea to get out of there before everyone else.  

Overall it was a pretty fun evening experiencing a pro-Korean sports event with my sweet husband.


Another mentionable event that happened before I left was the visitation of a friend Trevor met while he served his mission several years ago.  His name is Raphael (well at least that's his English name, I'm still bad at remembering Korean names, sorry Raphael!).  He was accompanied by his pretty wife and their adorable son.  We spent time chatting and getting to know one another while Trevor and Raphael exchanged memories of people they both knew while Trevor was a missionary.  The family was so kind to us and even treated us to dinner which was some spicy chicken which was quite delicious!  Unfortunately there was a big storm coming into Ulsan and they had to leave before it got worse but we sure did enjoy our time while they were here.

The rest of the week is a blur because I was making preparations for my trip so if I missed anything I'm sorry.  Maybe the next post can come from Trevor of any Korean adventures he has while I'm away ;) Miss you baby!




Monday, July 6, 2015

4th of July Weekend

The 4th of July is a time in America when we reflect on the greatness of our country.  We ponder the freedoms we enjoy and revere those who made it all possible.  So, what did we do to celebrate such a fine occasion? We went to ancient Korean Buddhist temples... But hey, can you blame us considering there are no parades, barbecues, or fireworks in Korea during America's Independence Day?
Don't worry though, we did enjoy delicious cheeseburgers and fries!  Good hamburgers are hard to come by here but luckily we have a friend here whose brother runs an American-style restaurant mainly featuring burgers.  It's called Burger Mugger but reading it in Korean characters it sounds more like bogo mugga to me.  I hadn't had a burger besides McDonald's since we left so that might have factored into how delicious it tasted to me.  


The temples we visited are better described in pictures as opposed to words but I'll try my best.  The first temple we visited consisted of a bus ride up a curvy mountain road, a nice walk through lush forestry leading to the temple, and several rather skiddish monks.  Ok so we didn't actually see any real monks but there were quite a few chipmunks! I know, I'm hilarious! 

At the end of the trail there were hundreds of colorful lanterns strung together in countless rows.  Naturally I gravitated toward the pink ones while Trevor went straight for the green.  There was a fountain whose purpose was unknown to us but it was accompanied by ladles for those who wanted to drink from the fountain.  Up a little further was the actual temple. Inside, pictures were prohibited (sorry!).  There was another little site that had artifacts accessible for picture-taking which we of course took advantage of.  

The view from the top of the "mountain" (more like big hills for a girl who's used to Utah mountains) was absolutely breathtaking as you could see the overlapping hills cascading down to a valley below.  The weather was somewhat downcast but I told Trevor that was ok because I had always pictured ancient Asian temples in a mountain coming through the fog like a mysterious ghost of ancient times.  
The second temple we visited was much larger and had more to see.  It was more like the temple was structured as an open courtyard and the various rooms throughout the courtyard contained places of worship and ancient statues and artifacts.  Once again, most of the insides of the rooms had photography restrictions so I'll show what I can.

 A few things I'd like to note about the temple include coloration, intricacy, and symbolism.  Both temples we visited used a light blue and orangy-red coloration.  I'm not sure what I expected as far as color, but I just hadn't pictured bright blue hues mixed with reds and browns.  Aside from unexpected colors, I also noticed how intricate the designs were not only in the painting, but also in the architecture carved into the structures.

There were also several nuances throughout the temples that all had some job to do.  For example, one section of the courtyard was dedicated to stacks of rocks which when stacked successfully without toppling any stones allows for a wish.  Of course, if you topple any of the other rocks, you ruin the wish of the person whose pile you ruined.  There are so many things to see that you just have to experience it for yourself to really understand.

That being said, let us know when you want to come visit! ;) We will surely take you to a traditional temple while you're here!  Hurry now before we're booked! :D But really, come visit us!